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Entry Number 006- T.S.A. Answers

By: T.S.A./Guest Writer

Question: What if I have feelings for my friend…but don’t want to make it awkward?

Answer: Having feelings for a friend is always a tricky situation, especially if they are your best friend.  You definitely don’t want to ruin the relationship you currently have, but at the same time, you wish to have something more than just friends.  The reason that people usually fall for our closest friends is because they actually show an interest in you, and you both get along very well.  The hard part is deciding if what you are feeling is love or if it’s just affection.

So what are you supposed to do if you realize that you are actually falling for them?  It’s not really a question that we can answer fully, it depends on your situation.  Before you reveal your feelings to them, you should talk to them to figure out how they feel. How they feel about relationships, and what they think a good basis for it is.  Some people believe that the start for a good relationship is friendship, and in that case, you’re in!  Others feel different about the foundation of them.

If you are worried about ruining your relationship that you already have with them, then just think about where you are now.  Is it really great if you’re hiding feelings from one of your friends? 

Friendships can overcome a lot of things, but secrets are the hardest to bounce back from.  Telling the truth could be the best option; putting everything out there shows the trust that you have in them, which makes it easier to talk about the situation.

Just be confident in who you are.  Having feelings for a friend is hard.  I hope that we helped you out some.  Thank you for contacting us!


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